The Ultimate Guide to Choosing Your Perfect Pendant Necklace: Expert Tips from a Family Jeweller

For over 130 years, we’ve had the privilege of helping Australians discover jewellery that tells their unique stories. Among the most versatile and meaningful pieces is the pendant necklace—an everlasting accessory that’s as personal as stylish. Whether indulging yourself or searching for the perfect gift, this guide is here to help you choose a pendant that will become a cherished part of your collection.

Understanding Your Style Profile

Before exploring specific pendant styles, consider your personal style. Do you gravitate toward classic pieces that stand the test of time? You may be drawn to contemporary designs with clean lines or love pieces that make a bold statement. Your pendant should extend your personality and complement your existing wardrobe.

Choosing the Right Chain Length

The suitable chain length can make or break a pendant’s appearance. Here’s a simple guide to standard necklace lengths:

  • 35-40cm (14-16″): Sits at collar bone (choker length).
  • 45cm (18″):  Low-cut, versatile length.
  • 50-55cm (20-22″): Ideal if you want it to sit on the lower neckline.
  • 60-70cm (24-28″): Long pendant style.
  • 75-90cm (30-36″): Extra long, suitable for layering.

Remember that your height, neck size, and face shape all influence how different lengths look on you. Shorter chains work well with smaller pendants, while longer chains can support larger statement pieces.

Matching Pendants to Necklines 

Your clothing’s necklines should inform your pendant choice:

  • V-neck: Echo the V-shape with a drop pendant.
  • Crew neck: Choose longer pendants that extend past the neckline.
  • Boat neck: Shorter chains work best.
  • Strapless: Any length works well, but choker-length can accent collar bones.
  • Turtleneck: Opt for longer chains that break up the vertical line.

The Power of Materials: Choosing the Perfect Pendant for Style and Longevity

Beyond its beauty, the material of your pendant affects everything from its durability to how it complements your skin tone, making this choice one of your most important decisions.

18ct Gold

  • Yellow Gold: Exudes traditional warmth and suits most skin tones.
  • White Gold: Modern look, perfect for diamonds and white gems.
  • Rose Gold: Romantic pink hue, increasingly popular for contemporary designs.

Sterling Silver

  • Affordable and versatile.
  • Requires more maintenance to prevent tarnishing.
  • Perfect for casual everyday wear.

Selecting Your Pendant Stone

Gemstones add personality and meaning to your pendant. Consider these popular choices:

Diamonds are the ultimate classic. They work with everything, from solitaire pendants to diamond-accented designs, adding timeless sparkle and value.

Coloured Gemstones

  • Sapphires: These are available in many colours and are extremely durable.
  • Rubies: Rich red stones that symbolise passion.
  • Emeralds: Lush green with historical significance.
  • Tanzanite: Stunning violet-blue unique to Tanzania.
  • Australian Sapphires: Beautiful teal colours with local provenance.
  • Pearls: South Sea and Tahitian pearls make elegant pendants with organic beauty. Their lustrous surface adds sophistication to any outfit.

Pendant Styles and Their Best Uses

Whether you’re drawn to timeless classics or contemporary designs, understanding different pendant styles and their ideal settings will help you choose a piece that perfectly suits your lifestyle and occasions.

  • Classic Solitaire: A single stone in a simple setting always stays in style. Perfect for everyday wear and special occasions alike.
  • Halo Designs: A central stone surrounded by smaller diamonds. This style maximises sparkle and creates the illusion of a larger centre stone.
  • Geometric Shapes: Modern and clean-lined geometric pendants suit contemporary wardrobes and can be easily dressed up or down.
  • Symbolic Pendants: Hearts, crosses, and other meaningful shapes make perfect gifts and can carry deep personal significance.
  • Vintage-Inspired: Detailed metalwork and antique design elements create a romantic, timeless appeal.

Practical Considerations

While it’s easy to be swept away by beauty alone, considering practical aspects like size, lifestyle compatibility, and budget will ensure you select a pendant that brings joy and satisfaction.

Size and Scale

Consider your frame when choosing a pendant size. Petite frames often suit smaller, delicate pieces, while larger frames can beautifully carry bold statement pendants.

Budget Planning

Quality matters more than size. Consider these factors:

  • Metal purity (18ct vs 9ct gold).
  • Gemstone quality and size.
  • Craftsmanship and setting style.

Caring for Your Pendant

To ensure your pendant remains stunning:

  • Store separately to prevent scratching.
  • Clean regularly with appropriate methods.
  • Have the chain checked annually for wear.
  • Remove before swimming or using chemicals.

Making Your Final Decision

With a deeper understanding of styles, materials, and key considerations, you can make a confident choice.

Try Before You Buy

Whenever possible, try on different styles. What looks good in photos might not suit your proportions or style.

Consider Versatility

Choose a pendant with multiple outfits and occasions to maximise your investment.

Think Long-Term

Quality pieces can last generations. Consider whether the style will still appeal to you years from now.

Custom Design Options

If you need help finding exactly what you’re looking for, consider having a pendant custom-made to your specifications. This ensures you get precisely the piece you want.

The Importance of Certification

When buying precious gemstone pendants, always ask for appropriate certification, especially for diamonds and significant coloured stones.

Layering Techniques

Modern styling often involves layering multiple necklaces:

  • Mix chain lengths for depth.
  • Combine different metal colours.
  • Balance pendant sizes.
  • Consider negative space between pieces.

Special Occasions and Gifting

Pendants make meaningful gifts for:

  • Birthdays (consider birthstone pendants).
  • Anniversaries.
  • Graduations.
  • New mothers.
  • Special accomplishments.

Ready to Find Your Perfect Pendant?

Choosing the right pendant is a personal journey that should be enjoyed. Take your time, consider your options, and don’t hesitate to seek expert advice. A well-chosen pendant necklace can become your signature piece, telling your unique story and enhancing your style for years.

Feel free to contact or visit us at our Melbourne locations to explore our extensive collection of pendant necklaces. Our experienced team can help you find or create the perfect pendant for your style and budget, continuing our tradition of excellence since 1884.

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